Relationships: Infidelity & Threesome, maybe?!

Dear Gordon,

I am apart of your page on Facebook, and I always see how you give advice to people, sometimes in your comments.

I live currently with my sister and her boyfriend of 5 years. I am 18, my sister is 24. The thing is her boyfriend cheated on her with a lady I saw him with several times in town and sometimes at the fish shop. My sister works hard as a cleaner so she hardly goes out. She also has two boys for him. He works also and I see he gives my sister money and he pays the bills. I know it would hurt her to know he is cheating but I think that I should tell her. He’s never seen me nor does he know that I know what he is doing.

Should I tell my sister about this Gordon?

Signed,
Confused.

Dear Confused,

If you are absolutely sure then perhaps you should break the news to your sister but realise that it could have a big impact on every thing but your sister should come first and her interests should be priority but just ensure you are sure of what you are doing.

 

Dear Gordon,
My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. While I think we have a healthy sex life, I find that it is becoming a bit redundant . We are thinking of maybe inviting someone into our bedroom to spruce things up. I am skeptical about it because of several reasons, namely 1. the health risks and 2. how it would affect the way we feel about each other . WE discussed that if we do try this that we will make sure the person gets tested. Do you think we should involve a friend or someone we never had any previous association with?

Reader.

Dear Reader,

If you are serious about your relationship then you will keep the sex life between you two. There’s a whole lot more you could try other than inviting someone else into your bed.

Email your questions to gomoseley@maglyfe.com

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